The Importance of Reading to Your Children

I recently finished The Read-Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease, which has sold over one million copies. Amazing! This book furthered my passion for children’s literature, and inspired me to begin a series on the importance of reading with our children.

Not that it’s tough to excite me on this topic – as a former English major, I’m always looking for a good excuse to “talk” books. Being an avid reader myself, I hope my children grow to feel the same way. The Read-Aloud Handbook opened my eyes to even more benefits of reading aloud than those I knew before.

Here are a few of my thoughts and observations.


1. Reading aloud develops imagination.

Don’t you love watching children pretend to be story characters? At my house I regularly “visit” with Beauty and the Beast, the Big Bad Wolf, Cinderella, and Horton the Elephant – just to name a few.

When children watch television, it visually presents every image to them. But when hearing a story, listeners must mentally create many of the scenes. This is developmentally stimulating and nurtures a child’s natural sense of creativity.

2. Listening to read-alouds increases a child’s vocabulary.

Many of our daily conversations use the same words again and again, but reading exposes our children to new language. Stopping to mention a new word’s meaning as you read also helps. Don’t feel pressured, though, to define every word – this ruins the story. Above all, we want our children to discover the pleasure of reading.

3. Along with vocabulary gains, children who are well-read become better writers.

Children accustomed to seeing and hearing correct grammar and spelling are more likely to use written words properly. Being exposed to well-crafted sentences also aids children in translating their own thoughts onto paper.

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Research in The Read-Aloud Handbook states that the more printed materials (books, magazines, and newspapers) in a child’s home, the higher his or her skills in reading, writing, and even math. So look for inexpensive ways to invest in books. Don’t fill your bookshelves with “stuff” when you can stock your home with high-quality reading material.

4. Reading to our children teaches critical thinking skills.

Teach your children morals without giving so many lectures. Help them learn how to think, instead of always telling them what to think. As we read, children discover what happens when characters make positive or negative choices. Someone once said that reading is a dress rehearsal for life. Through a well-crafted story we experience the good, the bad, and the ugly without any of the consequences. We get to learn from others’ mistakes.

5. When we read to our children our relationship deepens.

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I’m amazed by the conversations that arise with my three little ones during and after our reading sessions. Cuddling together with a book creates a safe place where children express their thoughts and even fears. I think this is what my 4-year-old meant when he said that reading together is a way to “take care of people.”

Finally, remember that reading aloud isn’t only for preschoolers or children who aren’t yet fluent readers. It is important for any age. Our goal for our children should not only be reading ability, but reading longevity. We shouldn’t really care if our children can read at age four – it’s more important that they’re still reading at age 24.

Next week I’ll continue this series and discuss more about reading with children. Until then, pick up a few extra books, snuggle with the little person you love, and enjoy.

What’s your favorite aspect about reading to your children? Do you see other benefits to reading aloud?

About Jamie Martin

Jamie is a mama to three cute kids born on three different continents. She serves as editor of Simple Homeschool, and blogs about mindful parenting at Steady Mom. Jamie is also the author of two books: Steady Days and Mindset for Moms.

Comments

  1. Hi Jamie, You’re right on with all of these benefits of reading aloud. Before I was a stay at home mom I was a special education teacher and a reading specialist. It was clearly evident which children were read aloud to and which ones were not. The benefits of reading aloud to our children are amazing.

    Also, I think the emotional aspect of it is so important.Some of my favorite memories are of my father reading to me before bed when I was little. And as a special education teacher, I had a lot of students classified as emotionally disturbed. I tried to find books they could relate to either the character, situation, etc. and it seemed to help them to open up a little bit. Now it seems like my 3 year old chooses the books that he wants read to him over and over based on something that he’s processing in his life. It’s like book therapy!

  2. I agree–I want my kids to LOVE to read. I keep books in the playroom with toys–not on a separate room or shelf. I want them to think of books as fun!

  3. What an amazing post. You put into words what I have been thinking and learning as I have read with my daughter over the past 3 years. I started my blog because this is what I want to convey to other parents–thanks for sharing. I am going to link to this in my blog.

  4. I love this post! We are fairly new in our homeschool venture (first year with all three homeschooled), and reading has been huge! I’ll admit, I wasn’t reading nearly enough ‘chapter books’ to my children until I was encouraged by one of your contributors. :) In only one short month, my children have become so accustomed, they will run upstairs to get into bed early so that they can hear more of the story. I can’t think of a sweeter way for my 5 year old to fall asleep. I also find that we are making so many connections through our reading, enforcing what we’ve been learning along the way.
    Looking forward to everything about this new blog!

  5. I love this!

  6. As a former family literacy teacher, I cannot agree more with this post. Can I recommend another book on this subject as well. I love Mem Fox’s Reading Magic. If you get the chance to read it, it will be worth your time.

  7. As a former family literacy teacher, I cannot agree more with this post. Can I recommend another book on this subject as well? I love Mem Fox’s Reading Magic. If you get the chance to read it, it will be worth your time.

  8. I love Trelease’s book. It really helped me not get so overwhelmed with all the ways to homeschool and my concerns of them learning everything they needed from me- simply put if we read together, the rest will come.

  9. Your 4 year old had it right when he said, “reading together is a way to “take care of people.” You’ve instilled not only a love of reading but also a great family bonding experience that will not be forgotten by even such a young one. What a great Mom you are, and such a wonderful post. Thanks so much for sharing.

    Blessings,
    Christine
    Christine’s latest post: Setting Up a Reading Challenge with Rewards

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